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Post by Bob on Mar 14, 2007 13:00:23 GMT -5
So, from the lack of activity in this section, I can assume that eveyone is in a happy relationship and you totally understand your partner? No conflicts, no jealousy, no issues at all? Congratulations all!
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Post by Krystle on Mar 14, 2007 21:31:49 GMT -5
Well, yes I'm in a happy relationship! No I don't totally understand Klark, but I'm learning to accept the things I don't understand as a part of him. I no longer just look at flaws, but I also don't ignore them all together. I simply just take the good with the weird ;D lol. I do have jealousy issues sometimes with some of his friends that are girls or his exes.
I don't know why. Sometimes I feel like I should be better than them, but I guess if I weren't he would be with them and not me right? So, it's something I'm coming to terms with. Most of the conflicts, I have to say, are started by me for pretty much no reason at all. I'm not sure if I get it from my mom or if it's simply a girl thing, but hopefully that doesn't mean I can't change it, right?
I think relationships should be based on compromise, equality, and understanding each other even, if you don't always agree. Honestly I'm proud to say that Klark is the best guy I've been with and I'm glad that I don't have to put up with all that crap that I did with the other guys. I'm enjoying not fighting (most of our arguments are just little spats or tiffs, nothing major) with a guy about pretty much everything 24/7 and not getting anywhere. It's a breath of fresh air.
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Post by cottam10 on Mar 17, 2007 23:07:41 GMT -5
Everybody has conflicts with their significant other. Some things bother you, some things don't. If you truly have a relationship, you will appreciate the other for the positive things, and not worry about the negative.
If you start finding fault for all the negative, you are looking for fault in the relationship.
You don't have a relationship then, you are looking for an escape door. Relationships, unlike the day to day world we live in, are not disposible. We need to figure that out, because if we don't, we all are going to live as lonely SOB's.
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Post by Krystle on Mar 18, 2007 14:01:50 GMT -5
Very Nicely Put! ;D
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Post by Bob on Mar 20, 2007 1:44:51 GMT -5
Very true, one can't expect their partner to be perfect and understanding is key. The benefit I can see to talking with someone about the little annoyances is for those like me. I sometimes find myself unable to just let the little things go, especially when they happen repeatedly, so I deal with them by venting to a neutral party, then I'm all better.
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Post by Krystle on Mar 24, 2007 15:43:38 GMT -5
Yeah I'm pretty much the same way!
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Post by thegreatdave on Mar 28, 2007 17:47:16 GMT -5
Now i have a question, How exactly would you start a relationship because i'm not in one but i would like to be. i'm also very lonley
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Post by Krystle on Mar 28, 2007 20:54:31 GMT -5
Now i have a question, How exactly would you start a relationship because i'm not in one but i would like to be. i'm also very lonley Dave. That was off topic and I think it deserves it's own thread. So, if you could please start a new topic asking the same question, that way people won't reply in this topic about a different topic. They'll be able to discuss it in a new topic. So, anyone else reading this. Please do not reply to this question in this thread. Wait until there's a new thread posting the same question! That way it keeps it nice and tidy ok? Thanks!!!! ;D
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Post by Klark on Mar 28, 2007 21:20:55 GMT -5
Well, after reading it, it wasn't totally off topic but I agree it deserves it's own thread. It makes for easier topic browsing. Since I believe this topic was Tiny's stab to get activity in his forum and there is now other topics, I'm asking him to lock this one.
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Post by Krystle on Jul 26, 2007 19:02:39 GMT -5
Dave, just find someone you like and go for it!
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