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Post by minouners on Mar 27, 2007 8:22:29 GMT -5
HEY EVERYONE! Well I left last night and I feel fantabulous! That's right, negative Minouners is out the door and in with the new improved version. WATCH OUT! BOOYAH! WOOOOOOOoooooooo  ;D |
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Post by Krystle on Mar 27, 2007 20:01:05 GMT -5
I'm very proud of you! See didn't I tell you you'd feel loads better?! It's only going to get better from here! So! Details!!!!! What EXACTLY happened, if you don't mind my asking!? You rock! Now you're free to come have your fun here with me and Klark!!!  |
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Post by Klark on Mar 28, 2007 11:22:46 GMT -5
That's the minouners I've been wanting to meet! Welcome back, positive minouners. ;D
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Post by minouners on Mar 30, 2007 8:24:53 GMT -5
I'm very proud of you! See didn't I tell you you'd feel loads better?! It's only going to get better from here! So! Details!!!!! What EXACTLY happened, if you don't mind my asking!? You rock! Now you're free to come have your fun here with me and Klark!!! Well it's pretty simple. Went to the apt, sat him down and told him I was moving out. He cried, I cried and then I pretty much left. Then came the works, first he yelled at me on the phone, the he begged for forgiveness and uhmm yeah. So my feelings are like a yo-yo, I'm totally lost and he asked me to go on a date with him this evening. I said yes but now there's something to add to the equation. I actually found a place to live May 1st. And she told me to call today. Now, we have 3 people wanting that place so I need to call asap. I'm so confused.... I don't know what to do!  |
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Post by Klark on Mar 30, 2007 20:00:22 GMT -5
Call for the appointment. Tell him that you can't date him. You know why? Because after you go back, things will be ok for a little bit, then it'll slide downhill again. You'll find yourself sitting at the kitchen table, holding your head and asking yourself why you let this happen. Tell him you can't see him anymore. Go out with some girlfriends to a club or something. Enjoy your single life a little bit before delving into another relationship.
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Post by Krystle on Mar 31, 2007 15:28:24 GMT -5
Exactly! Go for the place! Forget him! Enjoy yourself! Don't feel so bad about it. If he really cared, when you mentioned the moving out thing before you broke up with him, he would have said something earlier. He just sounds like he's using you so he doesn't have to be alone. Don't go on the date with him! Or you'll end up feeling worse later. It never ends and it doesn't pay to look back. They say everyone deserves a second chance, but if that were true i'd still be with Dakota and feeling really low right now. I made the right choice and so did you! Just know that everything happens for a reason, trust your intuition, believe in yourself, and something better will come along! ;D Hang in there!!!! If you ever actually need to talk pm me and give me ur number! U can call us anytime, if you don't want to write it all on here!!! ;D
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Post by minouners on Apr 2, 2007 11:18:08 GMT -5
Well I just received those messages today and I guess you guys will be disappointed to know that I did go on the date and did go back home to him.
I guess it might be a little more complicated and obviously there's some details that you just don't share online but I'm keeping my eyes open this time. He knows this is his last chance and I'm not depending on him for nothing.
I'm still going to go out with the girls and put myself first. This might have been the wrong decision to take but when you're in love, I'm sure you make plenty of mistakes....
So do give me your opinions and you're tsk tsk tsk's cause I'm sure you guys are not happy with my decision.
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Post by Klark on Apr 2, 2007 11:24:31 GMT -5
Ya wanna know what my trick is? I'm behind your decisions, good or bad. That's what friends are for. Keep them eyes peeled and don't be afraid to warn him when he's stepping overboard. Either way, I'm still proud of you.  |
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Post by minouners on Apr 2, 2007 12:35:30 GMT -5
Well thanks. You're support means a lot to me! |
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Post by Krystle on Apr 2, 2007 22:05:18 GMT -5
Well you're still doing a good thing. Just trust you intuition ok? Don't second guess yourself, because you'll end up regretting it in the end. I'm still proud of you too, because you are looking out for your best interests and no it's not bad to put yourself first. If you were together all the time and never did anything for or by yourself then you would be pretty dependent on the guy and would get back to feeling all low. I wish you the best! I hope everything works out for you two this time!!!
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Post by minouners on Apr 9, 2007 11:58:24 GMT -5
Thanks. And if it doesn't. I know it won't be the end of the world. I figure I'll give it a month or maybe more depending but so far... it's 50/50, I sometimes wish I would of just stayed away but then the other part is happy that I didn't.... man.... talk about mixed emotions!!
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Post by Krystle on Apr 15, 2007 18:06:59 GMT -5
Love's like that, but when the bad things outweigh the good things, it's usually time to leave. So just be careful and remember if it doesn't work out you could always move to nebraska and live with Klark and me! ;D
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Post by minouners on Apr 23, 2007 12:38:50 GMT -5
Sounds like a plan to me! ;D
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Post by Krystle on Jul 26, 2007 18:57:59 GMT -5
So, uh why aren't you here yet?  |
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