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Post by Krystle on Mar 14, 2007 22:11:55 GMT -5
Well, I want to know what quirks or bad habits about the opposite sex bothers you the most!? Not necessarily the one you're with, but in general. In general, for me it's when some guys (no i'm not talking about Klark, because he doesn't do this) think that they always have to be up your ass all the time. No I don't mean literally!  I hate it when they hover around you and are always like, "What're you doing? Can I see it?" (Ugh! My ex did that all the time!) Then when you don't want to show them, they think you're hiding stuff from them or something. Granted some people are hiding stuff, but I don't like people hovering. Especially not the guy i'm with. It makes me nervous and like they don't trust me. |
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Post by andreacranston on Mar 15, 2007 1:47:40 GMT -5
Something that really makes me irratated at the opposite sex is the fact that they hardly ever coment on things I need help with. See girls understand that when a person has a problem, even if it cant be fixed, that they still need to coment on it in some way. Guys on the other hand just say I dont know what to tell you, thats something you have to decide for yourself. This gets really anoying considering that if he is going to be apart of your life he needs to help support you in your decisions. (No I am not only talking about Colton)
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Post by Krystle on Mar 15, 2007 7:48:00 GMT -5
Lol. Yeah I know what you mean. That irritates me too. That and when you say something and they don't think they can help you, they say, "I'm sorry." as well as"I don't know what to tell you," or "It's up to you/It's your decision." (i'm talking about guys in general, but Klark does this sometimes)
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Post by Klark on Mar 15, 2007 15:32:36 GMT -5
One thing I don't understand, let alone bothers the crap outta me, is when a girl constantly puts herself down. Men, like women, are attracted to self confidence. Women, no matter what size or shape, have to realize that something about them is beautiful and accept the fact they are beautiful. (I'm not just talking about Krystle either, many upon thousands of women do this.)
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Post by Krystle on Mar 15, 2007 16:43:06 GMT -5
One thing I don't understand, let alone bothers the crap outta me, is when a girl constantly puts herself down. Men, like women, are attracted to self confidence. Women, no matter what size or shape, have to realize that something about them is beautiful and accept the fact they are beautiful. (I'm not just talking about Krystle either, many upon thousands of women do this.) I'm guilty! Lol. I don't know why women do that. I think most of them are fishing for compliments. Some of them aren't used to hearing nice things about them. Like you've told me before: Women focus only on the little details separately, while Men see the whole picture.  Besides I'm getting better you've got to admit it!  |
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Post by cottam10 on Mar 15, 2007 19:29:53 GMT -5
Okay, comment from an old man. Women, you want us to care about this and that, you want us to comment on things that we don't understand. Plainly speaking, if it's broke and we can fix it, we will. If it's broke and we can't fix it, we really don't want to "comment" on it. We don't even want to think about it. We just moive on. What bugs me? People trying to figure out what bugs me. I'm pretty straight forward. You will know if it bugs me.
Randy
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Post by vampyrekei on Mar 18, 2007 22:44:58 GMT -5
Let's see....The fact some guys never take better care of their body. And I don't mean eatting wise (ok, maybe a little) but I mean like the whole not brushing their teeth for a few days on end, and when you tell them to they get mad. Or when they don't shower or put on something to mask the body ordor.
Oh, and the whole "flipping throught the channel at the speed of light". O.o WHY?! >_< It gives me headaches! ;o;
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Post by Krystle on Mar 18, 2007 22:50:54 GMT -5
Yeah my past relationship didn't take care of himself at all! It was disgusting. That and more made me leave him! ;D As for the speed of light channel changing thing, I do that! Lol. Klark is the one saying I go too fast changing channels! ;D
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Post by Krystle on Mar 18, 2007 22:53:04 GMT -5
Okay, comment from an old man. Women, you want us to care about this and that, you want us to comment on things that we don't understand. Plainly speaking, if it's broke and we can fix it, we will. If it's broke and we can't fix it, we really don't want to "comment" on it. We don't even want to think about it. We just move on. What bugs me? People trying to figure out what bugs me. I'm pretty straight forward. You will know if it bugs me. Randy Lol. I totally understand what you mean. Generally that's how guys are. Yeah you are pretty straightforward! I hate it when people try figuring out what bugs me too. |
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Post by liljenjen on Mar 18, 2007 23:08:18 GMT -5
Overly competitive guys. Period. It's one thing to have some friendly competition, it's another thing when they get mad that you are better than they are at something they were just boasting about.
Oh and egos. My god, I can't stand a guy who thinks more of himself than anyone else. It really is the most unattractive thing I can think of.
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Post by vampyrekei on Mar 19, 2007 0:04:01 GMT -5
Yeah my past relationship didn't take care of himself at all! It was disgusting. That and more made me leave him! ;D As for the speed of light channel changing thing, I do that! Lol. Klark is the one saying I go too fast changing channels! ;D I'll make sure I'm not watching the same TV as you are then. XD |
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Post by Krystle on Mar 19, 2007 6:44:09 GMT -5
Overly competitive guys. Period. It's one thing to have some friendly competition, it's another thing when they get mad that you are better than they are at something they were just boasting about. Oh and egos. My god, I can't stand a guy who thinks more of himself than anyone else. It really is the most unattractive thing I can think of. Yeah I can't either. I'm fairly competitive and I hate it when a guy brags about doing it better just because he's a guy. Not all guys do that, granted, because I know a few personally. Um.......this seems like it's kind of turned int a guy slam! Lol. Sorry guys, but you need to speak up more! |
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Post by Krystle on Mar 19, 2007 6:45:35 GMT -5
Lol, Cal! I'm not THAT bad! I just read fast I guess! Lol. ;D
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Post by Klark on Mar 19, 2007 16:23:20 GMT -5
yeah, I don't flip through channels at the speed of light, but I do change the channel often. Like at commercials or something.
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Post by vampyrekei on Mar 19, 2007 17:28:47 GMT -5
Lol, Cal! I'm not THAT bad! I just read fast I guess! Lol. ;D LOL it's not the reading thing. It's all the flashing coloring moving fast. O.o;; It hurts my eyes. lol Unless you give me a strong drink...Then I'll just stare at teh TV not blinking. XD |
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I hate it when they hover around you and are always like, "What're you doing? Can I see it?" (Ugh! My ex did that all the time!) Then when you don't want to show them, they think you're hiding stuff from them or something. Granted some people are hiding stuff, but I don't like people hovering. Especially not the guy i'm with. It makes me nervous and like they don't trust me.
Besides I'm getting better you've got to admit it! 
